Pets Who Are Grieving

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Pets Who Are Grieving

It is not uncommon for other pets in the household to grieve the loss of their deceased animal friend. You may notice them searching the house for the missing pet, waiting by the door for their return, or exhibiting signs of depression such as reduced appetite or lack of interest in certain activities. You may notice other behaviors that are not normal for them. If you have more than one surviving pet, you may see signs that they are now vying for “alpha” status. Below are a few suggestions to help with a pet who may be grieving:

• Try to keep the daily routine for your remaining pet(s) as consistent as possible.
• Consider giving your pet something that belonged to the deceased pet that has their scent on it. This may be comforting.
• Do offer your pet extra love and attention but be sure to reinforce positive behaviors and avoid rewarding unwanted or unhealthy behaviors.
• Talk to your pet about their deceased friend. Let them know that you are sad, too, and that the surviving pet has permission to grieve Even if your pet doesn’t understand the words you are saying, they understand the intent behind them.
• Make sure that they get regular exercise and stimulation.
• Consider teaching your pet something new. Dogs in particular can benefit from learning something new that not only helps distract them but can also help give them added confidence.

Consult with your veterinarian if any signs of depression continue or worsen—particularly if your pet stops eating.